I think it is great. I care about my marriage even in times of adjustment. Choosing a few ways to show my hubby is no biggie. I probably won't be primping and wearing skimpy clothes (I'm bigger post delivery than when overdue ), but we try to have a lunch alone while he is on leave, and I try not to criticize his parenting. And I try to do a few other little things (allowing him a nap after a rough night, we have sex before 6 weeks, telling him I appreciate how awesome he is, etc). Easy peasy. My hubs is spectacular, and it doesn't take much energy to let him know that. But he is kind, patient, very awesome with even newbies, etc. He makes it easy to be grateful. Even when I'm hunched over from surgery and sleep-deprived.
Wife to Joe. Proud, tired mommy to Captain Destructive (6/09), Sir Screams-a-lot (8/10), and another little miracle due 3/13.
Trusting God brings life. Believing brings rest.