[happymama1]

what is your mother in law's middle name? Is that a possibility? It would still honor her....I agree with you that Deborah is a hard name to want to use....

Lillian Deborah would work, and then you could call her Lilly....and for the record, Lilah Grace Deborah isn't too long....just make her first name Lilah Grace.

on the picky hubby!