We have an amazing relationship with our BM and her siblings. They came from a foster care situation. We see each other frequently. I don't think she regrets her decision. She says she loves me all the time, and actually texted me that she missed me the other day. I kinda feel like we adopted the whole family. I even take her to school & Dr appointments if her adoptive parents can't. She told me she thinks of me as her mom too. That being said, we also keep certain boundaries in place. It helps us communicate and keep everything honest as to our feelings toward DD and the adoption. She is an amazing person.
Married to M since 2004
, baby wearing semi-crunchy mom to J
. Who blessed our lives thru open adoption on 12/31/11.