[themamageek]

Originally Posted by bigmamakelsey She's apologized and sent me a refund AND told me to keep my item. I sent the money back marked as personal payment owed. Now I do kind of feel like crap! Maybe it was insensitive given what is going on at home..ugh. I don't know!

Wait to send her the money until you have the item in hand. You were not insensitive. Hospital stories are a dime a dozen with real scammers.