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Originally Posted by keen1981 Ask for mod mediation? I imagine she found this thread. That's where the anger likely came from?? Because I think you were reasonable in expecting communication. My children have been in the hospital before. I feel for people. I do! But they have to understand they TOOK my money and I need to know I will get my items or a dang refund. My money was not a loan for an undeceived amount of time. Kwim? Communication is KEY!! And why all the sudden you get the communication you wanted?

Originally Posted by BeccaSueCongdon I don't think it was insensitive. You don't have any way of knowing whether her story is true or not. And it's a business. She shouldn't take it personally and neither should you.

YES! It's still hard though, we're all moms.

Originally Posted by Aithyne Wait to send her the money until you have the item in hand. You were not insensitive. Hospital stories are a dime a dozen with real scammers.

I totally agree, and if she's not scamming you then she really should see it from your perspective. You did the right thing.