Re: What about your other kids ?
Could Grandma come watch him at your house? My mom is 65 and can keep up with all 4 of my kiddos fairly well but yes she is tired at the end of the day plus she has a 7 and 8.5 yr old to help her chase the 20 month old. Could dh's mom stop by and give grandma a break for a little while if it got too long, then he wouldn't be with a man you don't know for a long time frame. I would ask Grandma first then when you ask dh's mom you can ask her to just stop by for a little bit and give a break. Once baby is born I would have dh be on little boy duty.
Crissi wife to my very best friend for 19 yrs.
Momma to 3 boys and 3 girls, 6-17 yrs old!