Re: So frustrated!
My cats have never been outdoors. The youngest is about a yearish old, the oldest is 2.5ish years. They have never been outdoors/around other cats.
I don't change it because I want to, and I would only do it in the case of not being able to walk in my room without vomiting, or it posing a health risk to my kids. It's far back enough in the house to where it wouldn't normally be a big deal, but it just can't be left for that long at a time without being scooped. And yes, I've asked him to scoop it, and it somehow gets forgotten... after a few days of "forgetting" I have to do SOMETHING. :/