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Old 11-29-2012, 08:55 PM   #13
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Originally Posted by iwiamandaiwi

I am in EXACTLY the same boat as you. I depserately want to experience raising a daughter and it is hard not to feel bad if it turns out to be a boy. No matter how much you know you are still going to love your baby either way it is hard not to feel guilty.
Even though this isn't my last, I spent a good hour crying after finding out it was a boy. I feel bad but it is a normal reaction and like you said, I will, of course, be over the moon for him when he's born. But I don't think my desire to have a girl will go away. And my poor DH was/is devastated. He wanted a daughter so badly! The hardest part for me is I was feeling "girl" big time the whoooooole time. :'( So much for my intuition.
Lyndi ~ WAHM to 3 rowdy boys 4/06, 10/08, 4/30 and 1 little angel 5/12 Baby #4 due 3/30/17
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