14 months is still so little!
I personally would say that it's none of her business when you wean.
As my DH and other family members discovered my breastfeeding relationships do not prevent them from forming their own ways of comforting our dks. They were so focused on what they "knew" they wanted and couldn't give them, it prevented them from finding other solutions.
She is just nursing to get what she needs and you as a good Mom are giving her what she needs.
Last edited by mommy24babes; 11-30-2012 at 01:36 PM.