We told our girls that santa was just fantasy and they could enjoy the stories if they wanted to. But he isn't real, just another character like on her cartoons or in her books. We still do all the other Christmas activites. This year now that my 6yr old dd is in school she chooses to enjoy the story and fantasy.
Desirea- I am the mama of 2 girls and 1 boy! We are a veggie loving, dirt digging, book reading, Waldorf schooling family!