Re: Breast addict
I nurse into toddlerhood, and DH and my sister do not have a difficult time soothing my 14mth old unless DS is teething (going to sleep is particularly difficult), not feeling well, or if he is missing me after a few hours apart. When DS is like this, they will just hold him, rock him, rub his back, and just try to comfort him as best they can.
Hopefully it is just a phase and will pass. You definitely do not need to wean if you and/or DD are not ready.