Stay home and send Dh. That's not something to mess around with. You need your health and so does DS.
On the flip, I would be massively ticked off if I threw a party and my SIL showed up with whooping cough and sick kids exposing everyone else. People understand. And if they don't, oh well.
Hi, I'm Brittney
Wife to one amazing man.
Mom to FOUR amazing blessings.