Re: Can you critique/offer any pointer on my birth plan please?
If it were me, these were the things that I noticed that I would take another look at:
1. After baby is born I agree that the placenta should stop pulsing. However, sometimes it is nice to get that shot of pitocin to lessen bleeding. My at home midwife even carries it with her just in case.
2. I would have them ASK YOU if they can do vag checks...not just assume that they can.
3. Are you planning on taking an herbal bath after? would you even mention that?
Otherwise - I think it rocks! Great job for you being so in charge of your birth.