Re: to circ or not to circ
I don't think it is weird to not circ. My DH and DS are circ'd and I already told DH that if we ever had another boy I would not do it again. Not because of all the intactivists and their horror stories etc (they actually REALLY turn me off) but because of how I felt when DS had it done. He didn't have any problems with his and it is a loose circ which my ped said is good but when he came back from having it done it was so awful. I just felt horrific for doing that to my little baby. Since I only have sisters it was just something I was really uninformed about. I guess I don't know what I was expecting but it was just much worse than I though. Anyways, that is personally why I would not have a problem having 1 circ'd and others not.
The only time you should look in your neighbor's bowl is to make sure that they have enough. You don't look in your neighbor's bowl to see if you have as much as them.