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Old 12-06-2012, 03:12 PM   #12
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Re: Would it bother you if..

I think it's rude of anyone to assume it's ok to just announce when you will be visiting, and expect to stay with them at their house. Family included! At first I was thinking you meant inviting himself to their birthday, which I do think it should be assumed family can attend a grandchilds birthday (we are birthday party throwers though, so everyone in our family comes....).

And in addition to that, I would definitely be upset that the transportation issue means you are all stuck at home for a week or someone has to stay behind. That wouldn't fly with me! Is this a financial issue that he doesn't want to rent a car, or does he not realize that your car seats only enough for your family? Do you have a guest bedroom that he stays in or does he displace others while staying there? Does he chip in for groceries, etc?
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