Re: Would it bother you if..
Wow- I really can't beleive some of the responses. - I wouldn't be upset at all. Family is important to me and DH. Neither of us would be upset.
Really you have a couple months to work things out. Its not like he is calling and saying he will be there in two days.
My family is close but still visits. Just last night my mom called, asked what we were doing since she was in town and came over with supper. I was greatful.
DH's family lives 6 hours away. To coordinate everyone to get together is hard. Many many times it is very last minute and we invite ourselves to each others house all the time. Everyone has a standing invite to come down and visit if they wind up with a free weekend. just like I know I could call up MIL and say we have a free weekend anyone else, lets meet at SIL on Sunday. She would be fine with it and anyone that could come would.
wife and mom-- no other special labels. Just trying to do the best I can.