Re: How big of a family
We have one and plan for one more. Before dd, we thought 2, maybe 3, but she was incredibly colicky and is still just a high needs kid, so we've decided definitely just 2. The financial aspect is another huge factor for us, not that a 3rd would break us, but it would just make a lot of things much harder. I think sometimes my perspective gets skewed by being here and seeing so many larger families, but really, I know we'll be happy with 2.
Mama to Ada, 7-23-09 and Sylvia, 11-27-13