No, not at all. I think it is great when grandparents try to be with their grand kids to celebrate the day they were born.
My fil doesn't even send a card let alone call them on their b-days. I'm not a big fan of his, but if he made the effort to come and be with them then I would def welcome him into our home.
sahm to 3 little women and 1 little man
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