Re: How much detergent?
Here's what I do. Be warned -- my philosophy is lots of detergent and lots of rinsing. My water is probably medium in terms of hardness.
I add vinegar to the first prewash to help break down the ammonia salts. I add the maximum amount of free & clear detergent plus a full scoop of oxyclean to the long, hot wash with an extra rinse. I have a front loader and do all of that with no spin.
Finally, I give it one more quick cycle (not just rinse) on cold with spins to rinse the heck out of it.
Janeen in Texas
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