Re: Who have you told?
DHs best friend knows because he guessed it when I wasn't drinking alcohol at Thanksgiving. The best friend then told some acquaintances that same day even though we told him to keep this private. Eeek! That was not planned and definitely awkward.
I've told one colleague who is also pregnant and we've been swapping stories and advice. We only communicate through FB and she doesn't have any connections with my other friends and family members, so no risk of leaking there.
Other than that only my doctors and nurses know due to all my recent visits for multiple UTIs. Oh... and online ladies like yourself. So it feels like a lot of people know already, but no one really close to me in real life.