Re: Official names?
Our girl name is Lyla Paige (grandmother + literary nod).
Our boy name is Everett Levi (compromise on DH's rejection of Ever as a girl name/name of respected judge in my hobby + Hebrew name, long history with the language).
There has been name stealing amongst other member of our family (aunts, uncles, parents) but they are all no longer breeding. However, my tactic has been to be very vocal about our names and that if anyone takes them, let it be known I will be mad... but I'm the oldest amongst the grandchildren and have a good relationship with everyone and I don't think anyone would try to steal anything. If this baby is a girl there is a good chance we will keep the next baby name choices a secret just for fun.