Can you switch back if necessary? If so, I would stick with #2 for 4-6 months, so you can compare the schedules more accurately. If all the other perks outweigh seeing dh less, it sounds good. A lot of dh's work so late they rarely see their families on weeknights anyway. At least you have that hour in the PM. and if you do get off work early, you'll see him at night as well. You being tired in the AM sounds like the biggest obstacle.
, married to dh for 22 years!
Homeschooling mom to ds17
our 3 1/2 year old potty princess