How do you when you've exceeded the "we're still adjusting to this new baby" and have approached the "ppd" level. I now realize that with my 2nd, I had bad ppd. I didn't even see it for what it was. I was so over stressed, I had so much guilt and was just a mess.
I now worry that I'm going to look back on this and see the same thing. DD3 is now nearly 4 months old. I still feel like I'm struggling. What is "normal" struggling to adjust and what is more than that?