Re: Bathroom issue, perhaps TMI
That is an awful issue to have to deal with but I agree that a 10yo neuro-typical child should be responsible for cleaning up. Not to mention being careful! How in the world is she creating that sort of mess? I am sorry for anyone with chronic health issues that can be embarassing and I can see how the mom would be sensitive about this issue but she is not doing her daughter any justice by not teaching her appropriate coping skills(this from a person who had childhood health issues). I was going to suggest the anti-bacterial wipes before you even said it in your post. I am sure as long as you are compassionate it will be just fine. At 10 she should well be able to understand the heath ramifications to others who might come into contact with her "mess".
Just in case.