Re: never learning to nurse discreetly?
I don't think you are being judgemental, but I don't know if there is a gentle way to suggest more discreet nursing without risking hurting her feelings or making her more self conscious. In regards to the "if it bothers you don't look" comment I was referring to how *I* feel about personally NIP and the potential looks I get for choosing to not use a cover, but recognize some women feel differently.
Wife. Midwife. Mother. Not necessarily in that order depending on the day!