hi ive been a member for about a year but not very active. im trying to figure this site out but am very overwhelmed! every link just has more links and i am not figuring ne thing out! i would like to message people who are messaging me about buying diapers and wht not but am not allowed until i make 6 posts. what counts as a post? if there is a general rules page please direct me to it, like i said all im finding r links to links and am getting overwhelmed. thankyou!