My younger brother played with my barbies, and put on my pink ballet tutus with a leotard. My parents didn't make a big deal out of it even though our whole family is pretty conservative. My brother is pretty masculine now at 21, but not freaked out by wearing pink or purple if he wants and can wear it and still be "manly".
Sarah (25), SAHM to sweet little J (7/11) & L (7/13)
, married to my highschool sweetheart
"But I am not ashamed, for I know whom I have believed, and I am convinced that He is able to guard until that Day what has been entrusted to me"