Re: Not trying to be selfish...
I'd start one right away so its there when people ask. In fact I've had a hidden amazon registry for a potential #2 for years. Every time I see something that is too young for DS Or something I wanted for DS but never got I move to my hidden amazon registry. As soon as I announce I will clean it up and make it public, I may not even have a shower for #2 but people will want to still give gifts and like to have ideas. My son, just turned 3, I keep an amazon wish list for him. We got several gifts off of it yesterday, I also keep his sizes current on it using the "I want" stickies for people.
Mom to LO#1 born 1/7/2010; Cloth diapered since day 1; Part-time EC since 9 months; Daytime PL since 29 months & LO#2 born 12/1/2013; first diaper was a tiny Swaddlebees Newborn Fitted! Curious of my Newborn Stash? Checkout my absorbency tests.