Re: sigh, I don't know how much more I can handle...
I know this is out there but shortly before getting pregnant with #3 I developed a milk allergy that acted just like what your describing. I was tested for all the things you were and then they assumed I had a hormone imbalance. I then got pregnant and the symptoms got a thousand times worse. On a whim I cut milk out of my diet. It can take about 3 weeks to get out of your system and sure enough 3.5 weeks later I was a completely new person. You may want to think about cutting milk out a try or going on an elimination diet.