Re: how do i wean a 23 month old?
Personally, I never allow any of the "twiddling", and other annoying behaviors. Even my 5 month old is redirected (gently of course).
It is okay to set limits on how your child treats your body. I am nursing DD2 (2yo) and DD3 (5mo) now. DD1 weaned at 38 months and I am VERY strict about nursing. I don't allow nursing gymnastics. You don't have to be abused to nurse a toddler.