Re: Those of you who've used 'no-cry' sleep solution (Pantley)
With my oldest my MIL used a pacifer with him, because he NEEDED to suck to fall asleep.
My second had to be held until he fell asleep, so this is what my SIL did while I was at work.
My third had to be rocked to sleep if she was not nursing, this is what my husband did when I wasn't home.
Never was I able to lay them down in their bed and get them to sleep there until they weaned, it required some sort of other physical contact which they then weaned off of in the same way they weaned off of nursing to sleep.
Hi I'm Sara mommy to 4 little Mischief Makers