Re: Why does this have to be so hard?
I would probably not say anything personally. My grandma is a bit rough when it comes to PG's - she's never had any bio children herself and doesn't get the whole pregnancy thing - thinks it's such a huge hardship for women to bear children. This time around, she has dimentia so badly that telling her wouldn't be worth it and might upset her when she is lucid, so we opted not to. Good luck, btdt with family who don't agree with what we do as well.
Carson ~~ Wifey to Sam, Mom to a blend of 8 crazy kids!
WAHMama taking a break for pre-nursing school!