Maybe find a doula or birth educator who would be willing to give suggestions? I found my first OB through a doula. I found my current (I moved) OB through a lamaze instructor.
My old LLL leaders would never give this kind of advice, citing it as against policy to discuss any specifics about doctors, but I have encountered several women who attend a meeting or two just to get the lay of the land and ask about things like doctors from the members themselves.
Originally Posted by sillymama
In your case I would try to calling the local LLL grouo to see if they have a recommendation based on your desires.
Meg, Momma to Joey (Feb 2010)