Re: Not loving breastfeeding :(
If she's popping off, could she just be done? Maybe handpump/express some milk after she pops off the first time and get a little out, and try again?
My letdowns used to be pretty forceful so I assumed they got quite a bit in the first few minutes. I seem to remember if they popped off I'd just assume they were done or had to burp.
I don't know about the fenugreek, I did take it when I was working with my first but both of mine had silent reflux and were a gassy mess.