Re: S/O kids hair
All of those would depend on the age, I think, and the personality of the child. If said child is the type to change their mind constantly, then I probably wouldn't okay it until they were older -- possibly until they could pay for it. Hairstyle for us also depends on whether the child can take care of it, or at least sit through me taking care of it. I don't go for hair in the face, though, so if a child wants to grow it long and isn't willing to take steps to keep it out of their face, it goes.