I come from a long line of extended bf's and have no personal experience with choosing not to bf. but I wanted to mention the fact that some women are abused sexually or physically in childhood/ young womanhood and could need years of therapy before they could consider the intimacy that is bfing. It is possible and some women don't have that response, but some do. We only walk in our own shoes and sometimes it's difficult to imagine what someone else's experience is. Best not to judge others choices.
Proud Mama to Hannah
(7/03) and Lily
Happy to be again after a bit of a break