Re: Hypothetically if your daycare provider.....
I would not be offended at all. I would actually be greatfull that she was paying enough attention to notice little things that were not adding up. As a parent I don't always catch or see everything or make adjusts at home without even realizing it.
I would be irritated with a dr. that just blew off those kind of concerns.
It was our daycare provider who first noticed DS1's torticollis. I was very greatful and was able to bring it up at his dr. appointment. It wasn't horrible and as a FTM I had no idea. Becuase we caught it really early it was an easy correction.
wife and mom-- no other special labels. Just trying to do the best I can.