Our ped said DS is my little doppelgänger and it's true. ODD and Ds look just like me and YDD looks very similar but she got red hair like DH and she has blue eyes which none of us have. She got those from the grandparents
DH is always sad that none of them are his little clone
The only time you should look in your neighbor's bowl is to make sure that they have enough. You don't look in your neighbor's bowl to see if you have as much as them.