Re: Tell me about your family cloth situation.
We keep a stack of dry wipes in a container on the back of the toilet or somewhere near the toilet. Used ones are rinsed in the sink immediately after use and put in an old ice cream bucket under the sink until time to wash. If they need to be wet for use we just turn the faucet on and wet them as needed.
Single layer flannel is fine for everyone, I like mine big enough to double over if it is just single layer though. Personally I prefer double-layer cotton knit.