I am struggling with this as well. Right now, my older two share a room, and the baby has her own room. A few months ago my oldest started wanting "quiet, alone time" so she has been using the spare room in baby's room. We are downsizing our house, and all three girls will be sleeping in the same room after we move. We are hoping to have a seperate play room, and am going to make a couple "one person only" areas throughout the house. We'll see how it works. First we have to get someone to rent us a house.
Mom to Kamille (8), Alexis (6) and Rayne (1)