I think the freetime is still fairly bulky compared with the other dipes you mentioned, but it is absorbent and washes well. The grovias are much trimmer, but I found the leg elastic too tight for DDs chunky lil thighs (mega red marks). What about sized AIOs like Nanas Bottoms or swaddlebees?
Proud mommy to PJ, born 6/23/2012
and wife to CE, since 9/20/08