I'm glad the situation is taken care of. I'm sorry its so hard! Seems like odd place foe xman doesn't it? But great that he has no more little ones near him! It us hard to say no but I think you are smart for recognizing that you need a break. Plus 2 toddlers and a baby is asking a lot much less medically fragile. I'm also glad the disruption hasn't had a negative impact on you from the agency! Sounds like its going to be as happy of an ending as you can hope for!
I, mama to dd A (3-08) and dfs J (10/11)
hopeful pre-adoptive foster family