[bluedaisyma]

Originally Posted by NotLad If I got an email from another mom saying something like " hey I'm new here, I'd love to get to know you so our kids can friends" I would totally roll with it. You don't know me from Adam. I would expect you to be cautious when it came to play dates. I think you can be honest with the other mom.

This and the above poster. You don't have to have had a bad experience to be cautious. I was like that with my older kids and will be when it comes up for my littles and my dh will be way more so.
It's even weird to me now for my 16 yr old to go to friends houses when I don't know the parents. But he has 100's of friends and I can't meet all of them.