Re: Defiant little girl...I have to tell my friend that her DD can't play with DS any
I would just leave it with they aren't getting along and you can't have them play anymore. If she really digs for more information I'd let her know her kid is destructive, but otherwise I'd leave it out.
And maybe I'm just lucky, but my almost 4 year old has never acted that way, nor has my 5 year old. I can trust them to play without destroying the walls/couch or inflicting serious damage on each other.
J- sahm to Z~12.07, A~4.09 and J~ 8.13