Re: Do you have someone stay with you after the birth?
We lived with the IL's when I was preggo with #1, so after he was born...they were there (FIL/MIL). MIL was a lot of help...either holding the baby so I could go pee or just whatever. Then with ds2, we were living on our own and my mom came to visit afterward. I don't remember how long my mom stayed after ds2 was born...but she just helped out in general...with laundry, meals, playing with ds1 or bathing him while I was trying to bf the new baby, etc. My dh wasn't/isn't a lot of help, so it was really nice.
SAHM to Kain
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