I think you're awesome OP. I am a single mother (never married her father thankfully) to my 19 month old and if I don't find someone by the time I'm ready to add another I would consider going the donor route.
Hope you get your birthday wish
mama to one fiery ginger girl born 7.22.11
(.Y.)exclusive pumper alumni(.Y.)
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