I went through the same thing with my oldest, and up until about the last year, he was still having random accidents, so we think he was just a really hard sleeper. We tried everything as well and even some things we aren't so proud of. In the end I can say it is just a waiting game, and an article I once read said something about how "no kid is still using a paci in high school, or for that matter, wearing diapers, or sleepin in bed with u, or any of the many other things/habits that parents may feel will never end!"
It makes sense, well for us, and out parenting style anyways!
Good luck and have lots of patients and support!
Bethany, married to the man that makes me smile
. Stay at home mom and homeschooler to my three wild and crazy boys! Bryson
9yrs, my comedian Noah, 4yrs
and new booby man, Sonny, 8 months
. Living our beautiful but crazy free- range, natural hippie lifestyle!)