Thanks everyone I do try to give choice but perhaps not enough. And I have a feeling both me and my husband do rush too much with her because he needs to get to work and we should be going home etc etc. I was doing the drop off this morning and talked her through everything and it worked well. Doing the pick up tomorrow so will give you and update. Thanks again!
family of 3 plus a kitty. Hoping for a few more
down the road.