I think I'm going to sit down and have a more serious talk with hubby about it. If he still seems resistant to dealing with it himself, I'll just tell him that I'm going to do it myself a bit closer to baby's arrival.
Clean clothes and clean body when near baby? Wash hands and arms before holding baby? I'm all for 100% smoke free clothes when holding baby, but don't know if that's pushing it too far.
I'm very non-confrontational when at all possible. I think this would actually be easier if we were around more smokers and could apply a universal rule. As is I'm afraid he'll see it as him being singled out.