[ajane]

Originally Posted by Musickmama What would you personally do in this type situation? Just tell them there're not allowed near your children? Or is there some kind of compromise? Of course with you having an actual allergy, it does change the picture quite a bit.

Yes, as harsh as it sounds they would not be allowed near myself or my children unless they gave up the deadly habit. If they want to kill themselves then that is their choice, but they are not going to put my health or my children's health at risk.